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Welcome to my Erotic Mentor blog, your portal to a realm of sensual discovery and personal evolution. Here, I extend an invitation to delve into the depths of Conscious Sexuality—an intimate, illuminating journey tailored for gay and bisexual men seeking genuine, enriching encounters.

…we embark on a tantalising exploration of a myriad of subjects, offering both broad insights and intricate details into my distinctive approach to Sacred Intimacy. I firmly believe in the complete immersion in sexuality, where every liaison serves as a gateway to profound self-connection and interpersonal resonance, transcending the mundane and repetitive confines of traditional sexual encounters.

Behold a tantalising glimpse of what awaits within my blog:


Introduction to Mindful Sexuality
Immerse yourself in the foundational principles of mindfulness as applied to sexuality, unlocking the transformative potential of this approach in your most intimate moments.

The Role of the Sacred Intimate
Delve into the enigmatic realm of Sacred Intimacy, where exploration of sexuality becomes a vehicle for personal revelation, emotional healing, and the awakening of latent desires.

Understanding Sexual Surrogacy
Demystify the intricate role of the sexual surrogate and discover how this specialised form of guidance can navigate you toward a more fulfilling, harmonious sexual existence.

The Benefits of Prostate Tantra Massage
Indulge in the therapeutic delights of prostate tantra massage, harnessing its potential to transcend physical pleasure, unlock the boundless reservoirs of sensual energy within, and prevent from cancer.

Mindfulness Practices for Fulfilling Sexuality
Discover a repertoire of simple yet potent mindfulness techniques, seamlessly integrated into your daily life to cultivate a richer, more conscious sexual experience.

The Myths and Realities of Male Sexuality
Peel back the layers of misconception surrounding male sexuality, uncovering the raw truths, unbridled desires, and untamed fantasies that pulse within the hearts of gay and bisexual men.

The Art of Erotic Communication
 Embark on a journey of uninhibited expression and open dialogue, fostering a deeper, more authentic connection with your partner(s) as you explore the depths of shared desire, dare to ask for what you need to dive into orgasmic trance.

Exploration of Fantasies and Fetishes
 Venture into the seductive depths of erotic imagination, embracing the full spectrum of desires and fetishes in a safe, supportive environment conducive to exploration and self-discovery.

Emotional Healing through Intimacy
 Witness the transformative power of conscious intimacy as it becomes a catalyst for emotional restoration, liberating you from the shackles of past traumas and empowering you to thrive in the present.

These topics represent just a glimpse of the seductive tapestry awaiting you within my blog. Join me as we embark on an exhilarating odyssey of self-discovery, passion, and sensual enlightenment. Follow along for candid conversations, practical guidance, and profound insights as we navigate the labyrinthine path toward sexual and spiritual fulfilment.

Happy and Sexy reading!

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An afternoon of discovery of techniques unknown to me until now. Christian was a true professional, clear in his explanations and very attentive. A gentle learning of a world that is essential for the sexual balance of everyone. I strongly advise you to do like me ….. Be curious!!! You won’t be surprised.
Alex (56)

“This is how a sacred intimacy session should be. Having experienced various forms of Tantra for over 11 years, I came to the session with Christian with an open mind. The experience blew me away. He held the space in a safe, skillful and highly intentional way. He created a wonderful space for me to surrender and allow old trauma to emerge. He held it in protection, love and light and it marked a significant shift for me. I would do this experience again and highly recommend it to anyone.”

Mark (42)
An amazing experience with Christian! He really made me feel like a whole new man. He has a great energy and took me on an unforgettable journey. 10/10 and I would easily repeat the experience.
Paul (32)

This was a unique experience for me as Christian works with you to explore your own sexuality through breathing and intimate touch. This is a highly erotic exploration of your sexual energies through a variety of touching, breathing, probing and hugging. Don’t look for an escort, but rather an intimate erotic guide. He is very good at this and I highly recommend him!

Jack (49)

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By using Body Pleasure, we (re-)activate the Vital Energy.

Guided by a professional Sacred Intimate, you will learn how to make your sexual energy grow and circulate and thus activate the internal chemistry (dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, etc…) that increases well-being, libido, and longevity.

By using Body Pleasure, we (re-)activate the Vital Energy.

Guided by a professional Sacred Intimate, you will learn how to make your sexual energy grow and circulate and thus activate the internal chemistry (dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, etc…) that increases well-being, libido, and longevity.

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There is no standard training path or certification to become a recognised Sacred Intimate.

Most Sacred Intimates have undergone some form of prior training which may be bodily such as massage or various forms of breath work, therapeutic such as somato-respiratory integration, sexological and somatic such as the techniques of Sexological Bodyworkers.

Some have been sex workers in the traditional sense.

Many have also trained as counsellors, therapists or coaches.

What matters most in order to become a good Sacred Intimate is the personal experiences of each person and their personal exploration of the different fields related to sexuality.

As Sacred Intimate, we are also on a personal path, that of our own erotic journey.

Without this, we would not be able to offer you our services.

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To all of you who give the gift of your body, your presence, and your attention, I want to thank you! You already bring so much to countless people.

You can do even more for the people who come to you, by bringing them a clearer understanding of who they really are, and to a higher state of consciousness.

I invite you to take a journey of self-discovery and transformation with the Sacred Intimate Training program. This is an opportunity to deepen your practice, expand your knowledge, and connect with your clients on a level that goes beyond the physical.

For advanced people, who have participated in many courses and would like to experience something new this program is specifically designed for those who are seeking to reach the next level in their path, If you have done many training and workshops in the past and are looking for something more advanced, using sexual Pleasure to unlock your full potential, this program is the perfect fit for you.

The Sacred Intimate Training Program is an immersive and sensual experience that will take you on a journey of self-discovery and growth. You will learn how to use your sexual and intimate skills in order to create a space of safety and trust, facilitate deeper connections, and offer a unique and personalized experience to each of your clients and for yourself.

Join me on this transformative journey and unlock your full potential as a Sacred Intimate practitioner. With this program you will be able to offer your clients a deeper and more meaningful experience that goes beyond the physical, taking them on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth.

Don’t miss out on this incredible opportunity to take your practice to the next level. Enroll in our Sacred Intimate Training program today and start your journey toward becoming a master of the Art of Sacred Intimacy.

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Often they have an almost satisfying straight life. They can continue it for many years, with wives and children. However, deep down they live with a sense of lack. This lack is not always clearly defined. It is often even repressed. 

The social and cultural conditioning in which we live does not always allow us to easily consider other options for a love, emotional and/or sexual life.

I have many clients who, in their late forties / early fifties (or later), come to me with a desire to experience other possibilities for intimate relationships. Often they have made their life in a straight classical way quite happily.

Sometimes their children are about to leave home. Sometimes their position at work is less competitive. Sometimes their relationship with their wife is dormant or their libido is down. Whatever the reason, they finally dare and feel ready for new experiments because, at last, they have less to prove and succeed.

But it is not always easy to know where and how to start. Especially since the gay “scene” is often quite competitive in terms of physical appearance, age, mastery of the codes of the gay scene… For many people it is difficult to meet the right person to make their “debut“ despite the countless Internet dating applications.

Maybe for you, it will be necessary to go very slowly. First, by confiding in yourself, by talking about your background, your hesitations, your renunciations, your fears. Perhaps then, discovering a body, smells, a sex that you think you know but which is not yours.

Then it’s time to act, and discover anal and oral pleasure. With even more fears, hesitations, desires. A confusion of feelings and emotions. Here again, it is difficult to find the right person, who will know how to take the necessary time and who will have the know-how so that you can finally access this new dimension of pleasure and bliss.

For my part, I found myself confronted with this difficulty when I wanted to discover the pleasure of intense anal streching (fisting) for the first time. What I saw on the porno films fascinated me and frightened me at the same time. And when I read or hear the comments of the men who are fisted, they give me the impression that they are evolving in another dimension and reaching a state of pleasure of such intensity that it brought them closer to a spiritual dimension.

But, me too, didn’t know where to turn or where to go… certainly not to a club, dark and obscure, with men with whom I could not have exchanged before…
It took me a long time to find the few people who would be expert and patient enough to open me gently.

With me, you will be able to experience your first time, whatever it may be, with confidence, with the know-how, the patience, the hygiene, the presence, the attention and the compassion that are necessary for a successful first time.

A close friend used to say to me: ‘The first time is a God who smiles on those who honour him‘.

So join me in making that God smile !

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One to One Retreats

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TANTRIC GETAWAY

SERVICE
 SINGLE COUPLE
Accommodation single room + breakfast €115 €145
Session – Discount from the session menu -10% -10%

TANTRIC ODYSSEY

PACK
 DURATION SINGLE COUPLE
REVELATION 2 days 
3 nights		 €1400 €2200
EVOLUTION 3 days
4 nights		 €2000 €3200
ALCHIMIE 4 days
5 nights 		€2700 €4200
TRANSCENDANCE 5 days
6 nights		 €3300 €5500

Tantric Odyssey Daily Planning 
2 bodywork 2h30 sessions (1 in the morning + 1 in the afternoon + sharing and integration sessions in the evening)

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La Casa Dorada

The venue is specially designed to welcome all those who wish to explore Tantra and Mindful Sexuality. It is also dedicated to all activities related to the culture of Vital Energy as well as Sacred and Contemporary Sexualities. La Casa Dorada welcomes all genders and orientations, with kindness and no judgment.

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La Casa Dorada is located on the Costa Dorada, between Sitges and Tarragona, 40′ south of Barcelona and its international airport (BCN El Prat). The property is 7′ walk from the wide sandy beaches, in a quiet and residential area. It is located on a small hill, refreshed in summer by the sea breeze. It consists of a large contemporary building on two levels in the middle of a large tropical garden of 200M². The upper level is occupied by the permanent members, while the garden level is entirely dedicated to visitors.

On the garden level of the villa you´ll find:

  • A large practice room of 70M² with laminate flooring, with HP BOSE sound system, coloured LED lighting, Seven double rooms with sofa, all rooms have direct access to the outside in the garden
  • Sanitary facilities with shared showers, washbasins and toilets
  • A private shower room adapted for the disabled
  • A sauna for 6/8 persons
  • A massage room with private bathroom
  • Free and accessible WIFI inside and outside

Outside, in the garden:

  • A wooden pavilion of 35M², covered, with the possibility of blacking out with curtains
  • A 115M² multi-activity platform, near the swimming pool, smooth concrete floor
  • A lounge tent with armchairs and sofas
  • The summer dining room with its terrace
  • The summer kitchen
  • The naturist swimming pool 12 x 6, salt filtration
  • Several intimate and secluded areas to meet and chat
How to get to La Casa Dorada

OUR ADDRESS:
La Casa Dorada
Carrer Josep Pla 11
Roda de Bera (43883)
Tarragona – Spain

BY CAR
All GPS systems will get you there without any problem, easy and free parking outside.

BY TRAIN
San Vicenç de Calders train station, taxis at the station exit, about 13€ to get to Casa Dorada.

BY PLANE
2 airports nearby: Barcelona El Prat International Airport and Reus Airport

PLEASE NOTE

Due to the topics we cover, the practices we carry out in private sessions always take place in closed, non-visible spaces. These spaces are not accessible to people who are not involved in these private sessions.

In communal areas, although nudity is practised everywhere, we ask that you limit your displays of intimacy to what is usually practised in family-oriented naturist venues. Please note that La Casa Dorada does not adhere to the codes or practices of swinging.

It may happen, on special occasions, that we organise a “Temple Night”, or a “Play Party”. This always takes place in a closed space, respecting the rules of hygiene, respecting our code of ethics and within the framework of mutual consent clearly expressed at the beginning of each ritual.

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  • For support in dealing with specific sexual challenges.
  • For healing of body memory.
  • To become more emotionally comfortable with their own sexuality.
  • For pleasure, joy and happiness.
  • For exploring creative sexualities and BDSM.
  • For coaching, training and support.
  • To explore a new element of their eroticism without having had enough support to try.
  • For a nourishing break from their stressful lives.
  • To be touched by someone who can be a fully attentive, caring lover for them.
  • For support in dealing with specific sexual challenges.
  • For healing of body memory.
  • To become more emotionally comfortable with their own sexuality.
  • For pleasure, joy and happiness.
  • For exploring creative sexualities and BDSM.
  • For coaching, training and support.
  • To explore a new element of their eroticism without having had enough support to try.
  • For a nourishing break from their stressful lives.
  • To be touched by someone who can be a fully attentive, caring lover for them.

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One Day Private Workshop

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ONE DAY WORKSHOP TIME SINGLE COUPLE
Any from the workshops menu
(1 practitioner)		 2 x 180 min €450 €650

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Mindful Sexuality is a practice which makes use of tools and practices which allow us to be more fully present in our bodies. It is an approach that offers permission for the body to take the lead where we are usually directed by our mind.

Through Mindful Sexuality, we can reconnect with our primal nature.
We align ourselves with the idea that we are not meant to be separate and that we are all connected in some way.

Freed from social and cultural conditioning, we give our bodies the space to express their needs, to be nourished, and to flourish. Mindful Sexuality allows us to access and release deeply hidden emotions. When we are in connection with another being, our body creates the optimal conditions and chemistry for healing and positive transformation.

By exploring in a free and open-minded environment, we can experience what it is like to live in accordance with our birthright to pleasure, play and bliss.
This allows us to explore connections which feel more in alignment with what our body most desires, and gives us the space to communicate our boundaries openly.

Each practice or ritual I offer is done within a framework of mutual consent. As an Erotic Mentor, I am here to make sure that your mind does not invade you with fears, doubts, habits, social or cultural conditioning of which you are not necessarily aware, which may block and limit you.

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As an Erotic Mentor, my role is to accompany and to encourage you on a journey home…to reveal the person you really are.

I am an attentive, wise and loving guide who walks beside you, slightly behind.
It is up to you alone to carry the light that illuminates your path, since only you know where you have to go.

I am here to ensure that you keep your mind free from fears, doubts, habits, social or cultural conditioning of which you are not necessarily aware, but which imprison and limit you.

This is what I want to offer you today, like a brother, like a friend or like a lover. I’ve arrived here to be with you today thanks to many years of experience and a long journey through the depths of human-to-human intimacy. It’s my heart’s desire to share my experience, my body, and my heart with you in a way which brings the maximum possible benefit to you and all those you love.

For me, the true Master is the one who lives what he teaches. He is a model by his actions, by his way of being and acting, not only by his knowledge, not only because he sits higher than the others.

The place I have created for you is a rare, holy and sacred space. There are few like it. Here you can be authentic without being judged and stigmatised.

It is in your power to use the unique potentialities I offer you, by expressing and asking for what you need to reveal who you really are.

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One to One Sessions

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CLASSICAL TANTRA MASSAGE TIME PRICE PRACTITIONER/S
Tantra Massage special Lingam healing 120 min €250 1 Male
Tantra Massage special Prostate healing 120 min €280 1 Male
SACRED INTIMATE SESSIONS TIME PRICE PRACTITIONER/S
1 ○ Sacred Intimacy* (for singles) 150 min €350 1 Male
2 ○ Sacred Connexion* (for singles) 150 min €380 1 Male
2 – 4 – U The bisexual Xperience (for singles) 180 min €550 2 (Male AND Female)
Trio Ritual (for couples) 150 min €450 1 Male

* Sessions 1 ○ 2 have to be taken successively.

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